Everyone will have an opinion about what you should be doing, where you should be, what you could become. It is normal.
They are just been human.
The only issue is if you feel that you have to accept and run with what people say. You don’t. You do not have to work with every opinion or suggestion you receive.
Listen to what people have to say of course, there is safety in the multitude of counsel. However, we must be ready to own the consequences of whatever comes out of it. We do not get to start pointing fingers around.